You talk all the time about players "ruining the experience for other players" but are one of the first to defend 2 players killing a match for 2 others, one of them being a level 1, where this is likely their first experience with the game. Tolchok kon on Low Blow is indeed a tough match. Not impossible, but tough.
I don't remember the antags that beat me. I will always remember the players that pull this kinda crap on me though. Just exit the match and take the time out. When I had a higher level player back when I was new try to surrender at the start of a HBaT game with a mikah antag, they left, and the 2 newbies also left, leaving me alone to solo the mission as Loaht against Mikah.
And I rocked that shit. I got Lycus to the end of the platform. Before that higher level player (Jenny Frost) reconnected, and one of the newbies, and they both hit surrender, forcing a loss. I'd much rather have just fought hard as Loaht and take my loss, than other players overriding my autonomy.
I encountered Jenny later on when I antagged after Hades came out, and they messaged me accusing me of hacking because I won. lolololol.
I come to play the game. I don't care about farming or rewards or whatever. That's ultimately how we progress, but it's secondary to having fun. I didn't get rewards as antag back before Hades and I antagged a lot even back then, because it was fun.
I solo play as antag, I'll solo or duo play as raider if I'm forced to because my teammates are too weak to even *try* fighting against an antagonist, or *try* carrying a level 1. But when those teammates are trying their hardest to sabotage the team, they can fuck right off.